I know there are people if I go into a market or a city for the first time there are people that are there that just want to see the famous person or the guy from 'Dumb and Dumber' or whatever movie they liked. And that's fine it gets them in the door but then it's my job to give them something different.
If we openly declare what is wrong with us what is our deepest need then perhaps the death and despair will by degrees disappear.