Most of my actor friends don't believe it's possible to let go of it and be happy and for a while that was true for me. For the first two years I ached every day. And I had such bad dreams. But then I made the decision to start working on my little shop and all that went away.
It is not possible to design always the same. How to be different in each different place - that is the most important work and duty of the architect to find out.