I was a bartender for a long time so I know how to make drinks but I'm more likely to offer them than to have them. I think this is one of the reasons why I get to live longer than my great-grandmother did and why I get to produce more writing than she did and why my marriage isn't in dire straits.
True happiness arises in the first place from the enjoyment of one's self and in the next from the friendship and conversation of a few select companions.