When we're dealing with the people in our family - no matter how annoying or gross they may be no matter how self-inflicted their suffering may appear no matter how afflicted they are with ignorance prejudice or nose hairs - we give from the deepest parts of ourselves.
There is only one thing that a man really wants to do all his life and that is to find his way to his God his Morning Star salute his fellow man and enjoy the woman who has come the long way with him.