The Obama administration now has regulations that tells them that they can no longer promote marriage to these young girls. They can no longer promote marriage as a way of avoiding poverty and bad choices that they make in their life. They can no longer even teach abstinence education. They have to be neutral with respect to how people behave.
I'm not happy all the time and I wouldn't want to be because that would make me a shallow person. But I do try to find the good in everybody.