Again in Wag the Dog war has to be declared by an act of congress. But if you go to war you don't have to declare war. You're just at war and we did that which is not legal.
But now being a parent I go home and see my son and I forget about any mistake I ever made or the reason I'm upset. I get home and my son is smiling or he comes running to me. It has just made me grow as an individual and grow as a man.