Parenting as an unpaid occupation outside the world of public power entails lower status less power and less control of resources than paid work.
Without feeling abashed by my ignorance I confess that I am absolutely unable to say. In the absence of an appearance of learning my answer has at least one merit that of perfect sincerity.
In school, I studied psychology, linguistics, neuroscience. I understand...
Any fool can know. The point is to understand.
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