I think every girl needs to love herself regardless of anything. Like if you're having a bad day if you don't like your hair if you don't have the best family situation whatever you have to love yourself and you can't do anything until you love yourself first.
Since the composer has said everything if you discover everything it will be enough and you will be a happy man. Don't try to say it's your taste and because of that you are changing this or that. And I must say this respect is still there.