You should see what our Founding Fathers used to say to each other and in the early part of our nation. But what they were able to do especially in Philadelphia in 1787 four months they argued about what a House should be what a Senate should be the power of the president the Congress the Supreme Court. And they had to deal with slavery.
Part of it went on gambling and part of it went on women. The rest I spent foolishly.
It is those who concentrates on but one thing at a time who advance in this world. The great man or woman is the one who never steps outside his or her specialty or foolishly dissipates his or her individuality.
Freedom means the freedom to behave coarsely basely foolishly.
It is best to love wisely no doubt but to love foolishly is better than not to be able to love at all.